Here is the jist of it---
3 yrs ago my (then 16 yr old bitch of a) daughter got together with this gangbanging thug, then got pregnant. He, Ray, came from a very bad child hood, mom had him at 14,the dad was his his mom's step brother, mom claimed rape, but it wasn't. He has ADHD that his mother left untreated , except for getting him SSI, (Money is that bottom line)by age 10 she had him selling crack to support his family....Well he was a few months short of being 18 when we let him move in, under certain restriction...no drugs, no booze, no weapons, no colors and no gang crap...We told him it was either our daughter and the baby or the street life...He picked a family life...he straightened out, amazingly sticking to the rules and when the baby was born, he was an awesome dad...though he and my daughter argued all the time, they loved each other...Well 2 weeks before the baby's 1st birthday, the first time in over a year, he went to a friend birthday party...a fight was going to break out, so he and his 2 friends left...Sadly though one of his friends, drunk and stupid, smelled pot while walking down the street to where I was suppose to pick them up...This idiot goes into the open garage where a guy is sitting and all hell breaks loose! Well Ray tried to be the good guy, he went and grabbed his friend and tried to drag him away, but the other guy started clocking Ray in the back of the head, tell finally Ray let go of his friend and turned and beat the hell out of the guy...so he went from good Samaritan to aggravated assault...both boys where given 2 years in prison...
My daughter stuck by his side and when she turned 18 they had a jail house wedding (We told her not to, to just wait, but wtf do we know) everything was tense but ok tell about 4 months ago...My daughter decided she was done with him....the problem? He is paroling to our house, his home....She doesn't want him here, says she hates him...He loves her and wants to be a good husband and father...He gets out on Saturday...
For those of you who have heard me bitch about my daughter and her nasty attitude, your probably imaging what I think might happen...All I care about now is keeping my 2 1/2 yr. old grand daughter from being the rope in a tug or war game!
Hear the bomb ticking? lol I can not only hear it but I can feel it in the air!!
My life would make an awesome soap opera!!