Official Rant Thread (ACW: Volatile Language)

she's your child and no matter how much they may do things you hate, they are still apart of you
 
I hate being on the carpet for shit I haven't done. I don't argue and I still seem to catch BS.
 
I feel ya on that one...I seem to be living in the BS zone....Everything is always my fault...Hows the hell did I raise to sweet loving boys and one self centered, self serving, bitch? ....She keeps saying she is going to move and leaving the baby here...I finally got pissed off enough to ask When?!? the reply?...Said in a tone of pure hate..."Soon as I can, I fucking hate living here!...ARG! Stop saying it and fucking do it!! Your 19 1/2 and a rotten mother...leave the baby and just fucking go already!!

*Deep breath*...Sorry, it has been a rough week so far and no sign of the light at the end of the tunnel yet!
 
is ok Madi, I know how ya feel. I've been dealin with my Mom n her medical problems n it's takin a toll as well. Being a adult sucks.lol
 
It does...you see my mother was an abusive parent, mentally and physically.(Lucky for me at age 14 my step mom took over, god I love her!!)..She passed away the day before fathers day, and she left me with mass mental trauma...and some how, my child is exactly like her, so now I get to deal with her and flash backs!!...If it was not for the baby, I'd toss her out so fast her head might pop off when she hits the curb!!
 
my parents were abusive as well. So even though I care about my Mom I have difficulty at times when she depends so much on me. But I do what I must cus she is my Mom and I guess she's tryin to make up for my shitty childhood and stuff since I had gotten older.
 
not my mom, when I was 11 she turned to drugs...she died of an over dose of methadone, norco, Valium and zanex.....for me, she died when I was 11...it still hurts that she is really gone now....but after 40 yrs of abuse I put up my boundaries and refused to let them fall...your a very strong person to still be there and still be helping your mom...I give you much props!!
 
Thanks Madi, Hell my Dad was a real bastard n he lived with me when my sister kicked him out (after she used up all his savings(bitch)). Then he got lung Cancer n had to deal with his dying a long n painful death. *sigh* I guess what they say is true, what does not KILL YOUR ASS, will make you stronger lol
 
No we're not Madi, we are strong woman whom others have tried to break but failed. We do what we must to survive and the lessons we have learned are what make us who we are today. You love your daughter, you just don't like her and it's ok to feel the way you do. You know your Granddaughter's heart would be broken if you kicked her mother out. But, like a parent that stays with an abusive partner for the sake of the kids Really isn't doing whats best for them because growing up n Seeing and Hearing the abuse changes who they are. So My Dear Feline, you are between that rock and hard place....but the only difference is at least your daughter is not abusing your Granddaughter, but yes she may be neglecting her. But I am sure you give her ALL the love she needs to turn out to be a wonderful and caring person.
 
*Hus* Thank you...in 15 days, the little ones dad comes home from "Daddy camp". and my daughter days she is leaving and he can stay here and take care if the baby so she can do what she wants....The dad is an over grown kid, but I think her will do things with her that she needs to do, like get out and go places,my daughter doesn't take her out much...15 days,then life is going to change, for the better I hope!!! :) Other wise the next step is to kick them all to the curb and go for custody...good if we win, but very bad if we loose...Eh, stressing, going to bed lol, thanks for listening to my ranting(Bitching)
 
O I'm going to fix the problem...I'm just bitching because I've got 2 ways to go and neither is going to be smooth...A. Take the daughter to court and get the baby...but if she wins I'll never see the baby again....or B. Keep the baby,let the dad stay with us, let mom move and ask for no help with raising her from the mom and mom could take her back at anytime...Also, it would help if my damn voice would come back...going on 5 months since I started having no voice or a frog voice...Dr. says it is due to strained vocal cords..ppfft! I blame the bitch!
So I bitch first...stew on it, then take action....I will have more of a hand hold when the dad returns on the 20th of this month...so counting down the day...14 left!!

O and C. Maybe the mom and dad will get back together, move out and all will be at peace again and I can have my fricken hobby room back!!!!...

I sooooooo want C!!!!
 
I'm very flipping tired of immature, irresponsible, fictitious whining babies at work. They are supposed to be professional adults, but they are not, and now it is threatening my job. It took two years to finally get a job, and because I follow all the rules, corporate and legal, I might be losing my job. My hours were already severely cut to below part-time status. I do my job as its supposed to be, yet those whose work practices can get the store shut down by the state itself by what they do, they are getting more hours ands being listened to my upper management. It does not help when upper management has less then two years experience in this field, but even less experience as management.

I have been doing food service for almost 20 years, and was management for seven of those. I am the only individual in this company with more then two years food service experience, and more than one year management experience. Now these two managers are listening to supposed adults who would rather socialize with each other, flirt with customers, perform conversations which can result in sexual harassment claims, along with performing unsafe food handling procedures. One of these people while sweeping the floor, will see a customer they like, drop the broom and rush back while I am there ready to toke the order, skip washing their hands, and shove me out of the way to make the individual's sandwich. There is an entire shitload of stuff that these individuals do that is against the rules and the law, yet I am the one who is possibly getting fired cause of them. I have pointed out the wrong-doings before and on multiple occasions, but my concerns were ignored. They are PISSING me off!!

{Fades before he gets more pissed.}
 
Is there a method in place for you to keep going up the chain if your direct supervisors/managers aren't listening to you?
 
Yes there is, and I plan on using it if the meeting with my upper managers don't give satisfactory results, and don't do their job as its supposed to be done.
 
I swear the next person whop pisses me off is going to take a short walk off a long pier wearing cement shoes!!...I am over loaded! Back the Fuck Off!!
 
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